You’ve Got To Be Kidding Me

As I was pondering whether or not Sir Paul McCartney has someone whose job it is to fetch his pizza and whatnot, it occurred to me that I myself am seeking gainful employment. With a little bit of luck, maybe a celebrity has a Pizza Fetcher opening. To be honest, I’m not that picky; I’d happily consider a Coffee or Tea Fetcher job or even a broader role as Beverage Fetcher (I’m versatile).

But what if the Beverage Fetcher had to call in sick one day, and the celebrity needed a half-caff skim latté? No problemo. I’m even willing to accept a job as First Runner Up Beverage Fetcher, just to get my foot in the door and learn the ropes. I feel prepared to serve, literally, in the event the Primary Fetcher cannot.

I wondered how else one could make a living mooching off someone else’s fame and success. Personal Assistant, sure, but that’s so obvious. Then it hit me like a ton of bricks: Court Jester. Yes! Now we’re talking.

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I don’t have to be employed by actual royalty, of course. Anyone with a nice bank account and a high profile, who can’t just go out and see real comics without being recognized and swarmed by fans. Keep me in the style in which I would gladly become accustomed, and I promise no fewer than (on average of course) 4 laughs an hour. For a nice bonus I could bump that up to 6.

Of course I’m also open to the idea of working as an Institutional Jester; surely there are openings at hospitals, schools or even funeral homes. I have some killer funeral jokes. Wherever mediocre humor is needed, I will be there!

I don’t see any openings for Jesters in the want ads, so I’m going to place my own ad:

Now Available: Jester (court, celebrity or other; open to all ideas)

Amuses with pratfalls, bad puns; specializes in cancer, Judaism and the classic; lawyers. Plagiarizes from only the funniest, freshest comedians! See references from former employers:

“We told her every single day: stop clowning around! But Jill is no quitter. She persevered.”

“Jill did her best to keep our staff meetings lively, but we’re just too stuffy I guess. Eventually we simply stopped inviting her to meetings. She is not cut out for serious work!”

“We counseled Jill to find her happiness elsewhere. Maybe a farm where she can run free with the other oh-so-funny employees.”

“Be prepared to point and laugh like you never have before! One of a kind we hope; please, no more like her!”

I’m waiting by the phone!

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The Obligatory Post-Superbowl-Post Post Postscript

I can’t resist adding one more observation about yesterday’s big game; Paul McCartney. Yes, Sir Paul was in the stands and when the camera cut away to him he was eating a big old NY slice, folded over NY style. And I got to thinking, does he have a fetcher or something who goes and gets his pizza? Because it’s a lot of fun to think about the slack-jawed concession worker who looks up and finds no one less than a former Beatle ordering one pepperoni, one plain*.

I know, he was probably in a suite with fancy gourmet pizza or something, but you have to admit that it’s (greasy) food for thought.

*That is speculation on my part. I could not see the toppings on Paul’s (we’re on a first name basis in my head) slice. In fact, he may have had white pizza. I really can’t say. Speculation for comedic purposes only.

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The Obligatory Post-Superbowl-Post Post

Well, the Superbowl proved to be a great time for Seattle, but overall a really boring game. Of course, it’s not just about the game, it’s about the commercials too. There were definitely some good ones; I’m partial to the Doberhuahua, myself. But do you remember what product they were advertising? Me either. And I liked the commercial about car engineers getting their wings, but I can’t tell you what kind of car they were advertising. So even if a commercial is cute or funny or memorable, if you don’t associate it with the product, it’s an Epic Fail. I liked the Chobani Yogurt bear commercial, and the Doritos time machine commercial, and obviously I remember what they were trying to advertise. Pepsi sponsored the halftime show; I still love the Red Hot Chili Peppers but I drink Diet Coke and have no plans to switch, so, not sure what they accomplished.

I take personal umbrage at Led Zeppelin selling out to Cadillac, and I think Bob Dylan shilling for Chrysler must certainly indicate the coming of the apocalypse. I’m OK with Stephen Colbert hawking pistachios because, well, the whole thing was kind of cool and quirky, just like Colbert. Overall I didn’t see anything as impressive as the good old days; the 1984 scene when Apple introduced the first Mac for example, or when something called Monster.com appeared on the Interwebs.

Commercials of course tell us a lot about the demographics of the viewing audience. Judging by the Superbowl ads, football fans drink a lot of beer and eat a lot of junk food (duuh), drive super-expensive cars, and desperately want out of their long-term commitment with their mobile service provider. I’m not sure how they’d pin me down; I don’t drink, I could care less what I drive as long as it’s safe and reliable, and my mobile service is whatever I can get really cheap. I mean, I’m still using a Blackberry folks; my needs are not great in that arena.

I don’t seem to fit in to most demographics for the shows I watch (and it bears repeating that I watch an inordinate amount of television). The closest demographic for me seems to be the Logo Channel (that’s the, uh, well, gay network, I guess). First off, the Logo Channel has reruns of all my favorites: Will and Grace, The Golden Girls, Roseanne, Living Single; and new extravaganzas like RuPaul’s Drag Race. Logo makes Bravo seem downright heterosexual. And my unscientific but heartfelt research indicates that two out of every three commercials on Logo are for cat litter. I believe the rest is an eclectic mix of Franzia wine, designer eyeglasses, and Williams Sonoma. I mean, not to totally stereotype or anything. As a gay man trapped in the body of a straight woman, I feel like I’m on solid ground when I discuss these matters.

In “researching” this post, I was reminded of another of my favorite ads, the reason for which will be immediately apparent when you click below. Enjoy!

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The Virginia Girls

Part myth, part legend…there exists a gang of loose women…er, uh, rather, women running loose; they run amok in a pack of 8, always on the prowl for mischief. The Virginia Girls. While technically no one has ever been arrested during these outings, we did have a close call a number of years ago in Vegas. One of The Girls showed up at the restaurant in handcuffs, accompanied by a security guard. No, he was not a stripper but it was indeed a prank. I think it’s telling that none of us were overly surprised to see Our Girl in handcuffs because hey, that was going to happen sooner or later. I guess what happened in Vegas should have stayed in Vegas. Ooops.

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The Girls met for dinner recently in the anonymity of a Chinese restaurant. Obviously, I can offer no photographic evidence as this is a very hush-hush Gang of Girls, but I can offer some of the highlights of the evening.

First, we were in an extremely authentic Chinese restaurant, in that no one who works there speaks more than 10 words of English. As you can guess, The Girls speak no more than 10 words of Chinese, and I don’t even know if it’s Mandarin or what. This led to many antics. One of The Girls decided to order a Manhattan, but after repeatedly explaining the drink and spelling out R-Y-E, the waiter returned with a mysterious drink, bearing little semblance to a Manhattan, which we have accordingly dubbed The Newark.

Two of The Girls quietly polished off an entire teapot of Sake before anyone noticed. Others stuck with the classics like red wine and martinis, and yours truly of course, stuck with ice water. Because let’s face it, I don’t need any more “personality.”

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I will admit that there was a lively, and almost certainly too-loud discussion of bras, bra sizes, bra fittings and other boobery topics, because one of The Girls had found a dress for her daughter’s wedding, but had the misfortune to try it on with the wrong bra. She warned everyone about that very problem before showing us the picture, but apparently we’re not good listeners. Suffice it to say that she will have the proper undergarments before the big day because otherwise The Girls might do a drive-by bra slinging. And honestly, haven’t we all tried on an evening gown while wearing the wrong undergarments, or worse, athletic socks and sneakers? I don’t even know why I have athletic socks and sneakers, other than to try on evening wear, because lord knows I don’t do anything remotely athletic. Yikes, that was me, off on another tangent. Apologies.

Moving right along, it seemed that everyone in the restaurant was having a birthday! We watched as time and time again all the servers came out with a glowing candle stuck in a piece of cheesecake, singing something in Chinese to the tune of Happy Birthday. This started a conversation among The Girls about birthdays, and I can only say this…I am the youngest. Nah nah! OK, that wasn’t nice but I couldn’t resist. At any rate, our server must have simply heard us mention the word “birthday” and the next thing we knew they headed for our table and presented one of The Girls with her birthday cheesecake. I guess it was a little early since her birthday isn’t until March. Vigorous laughter may have in fact morphed in to snorting, but we were still all able to down a bite of Chinese Cheesecake (which tastes a lot like NY Cheesecake). We had finally calmed down, when on the way out the hostess yelled “Where is birthday girl?” and we once again dissolved into fits of laughter.

This is no way for Dignified Women of a Certain Age to behave. And that’s why we’re The Virginia Girls. We may have aged, but we refuse to grow up.

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Is The Vortex Too Polar?

Apparently, yes. The annual Polar Bear Plunge into the Chesapeake Bay was canceled last weekend because…wait for it…it was too cold. Too frackin’ cold for a Polar Bear Plunge. It’s unfortunate that the real Polar Bears are swimming around looking for ice floes because way way up north has been warming for years, but meanwhile the shores of the Chesapeake Bay are too frigid. My idea of bringing the Polar Bears down here has been shot down as impractical. But you have to admit it would be pretty amazing if we could just ship them down here.

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What I also find interesting about this Polar Vortex record-breaking cold winter is that we are apparently rather fragile animals. So the Doomsday Preppers, the people with a 3 year supply of water and dehydrated food, assault weapons, gas masks, and massive amounts of anti-chemical warfare stuff; did they remember to put away some thermal underwear? Parkas? Hand warmers? What about the Holy Trinity of Weather: bread, milk and toilet paper?

For all we know, Doomsday is coming but we will be so preoccupied with The Weather we will miss it! I mean, even on a slow news day it’s difficult for the talking heads to talk about anything but The Weather. Talking about the weather used to be a small talk cliché; “is it cold enough for you?” Now, we’re all riveted to The Polar Vortex Weather Desk 24/7 and trying to grasp the enormity of this Dangerous Weather.

Meteorologists have waited their whole lives for this; their big moment. This will surely be the case study future generations of meteorologists will obsess over. To them, I say congratulations! To everyone else; is it cold enough for you?

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All About Me, Me, Me

I know I have been neglecting my blogging duties, but it was for a good reason. I have been gallivanting about town doing Serious Authorly Things. I had an Author Talk and Book Signing at a local bookstore, where hundreds, no, thousands of my adoring fans stood in line in the cold snow just to catch a glimpse of me. OK, well, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration. In truth, friends whom I nagged nonstop for the last month came by just to get me off their backs. It was a lot of fun and I am truly grateful to One More Page Books and to all my friends and family who made their way over last Monday.

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Meanwhile, back at the ranch, Breast Cancer Wellness magazine published one of my articles; click here and go to p. 32.

So in conclusion, I would love to write more, but I’m too busy writing more. Or something like that. I shall do my best to regale you again soon with tales of my crazy life and times.

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Of Course I Love Cats…

I just can’t eat a whole one by myself. Har har. We all love that old chestnut, right? Well, I don’t totally love it, and you know the people at PETA are not amused. Still, I think we can all have a chuckle at this, courtesy of my friend Betsey.

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Always Fresh. Always for Less.

I know I am derelict in my blog duties, please bear with me and I’ll have an exciting, hilarious, unbelievably brilliant post…soon. Probably. Maybe. OK, maybe brilliant is over the top; how about clever? Yeah, we’ll see.

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Hair We Go Again

I’ve just survived one of the most terrifying events a woman can live through. I had a hair appointment scheduled yesterday, and received an ominous message from the salon on Tuesday. Cynthia no longer works here.

OK, back it up…what? The woman said she’d be happy to set me up with mumbled name who could take care of me. Umm, no. A woman doesn’t just change stylists like it’s no big deal. Geography broke me up with my beloved Kim several years ago, and I got settled in to a new salon, downtown, close to my office. I read in Washingtonian that redheads worth their salt would not dream of seeing anyone other than Melissa at this new salon.

I got semi-attached to Melissa; she did a nice job getting color back in my hair when it grew back from chemo. The next thing you know, Melissa is pregnant with baby #2 and won’t be coming downtown to do hair anymore. I allowed myself to be gently placed in Derek’s hands. Derek was good…until he decided to move back to Nashville and left me high and dry, with gray roots.

I was persuaded to try stylist #3; let’s just call her Snooty McCrabby. Not only was she not nice, she was a terrible stylist. One visit with her and I was done. The husband, who typically wouldn’t notice if I burst into flames, greeted me with “holy sh*t what happened to you?” Just for the record, that is not a good thing to say when a woman comes out of a salon.

They promised me that Cynthia was the answer to my prayers, and right they were. She fixed the other disaster and got my hair just the right color (the formerly natural color). We’ve been sailing along, happy happy happy. Cynthia no longer works here.

I was fired up this time. I decided to pitch a hissy fit and make them tell me where Cynthia went. I gathered my thoughts and called, ready for a fight. But the receptionist didn’t fight back. She immediately coughed up the information without me even having to threaten her. Thank goodness Cynthia is still downtown, and my hair is freshly “naturally” red as we speak.

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But this is a Tale of Two Salons as well. The salon I just broke it off with is lovely. They have big dishes of chocolate candy and TVs all over the place, tuned to Bravo. There are no mirrors in the area where they do color, so I never accidentally glimpsed myself looking like the Bride of Frankenstein. No mirrors until everything was done, a nice touch I always thought. The new salon is nice but no TVs, no chocolate, and plenty of mirrors, so I was once again reminded why it’s a bad idea to look in the mirror when in the midst of “processing.”

I’m sure I’ll settle in to the new salon, but this whole thing has been very traumatic. I’ve experienced an inordinate amount of Stylist Anxiety and might need some peanut M&Ms just to calm my frazzled nerves. Crisis, narrowly averted.

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The Fur Chronicles

Some would say the world is divided into two types of people: Dog People and Cat People. I say the world is divided into animal lovers, and people who should not be trusted under any circumstance. But I’ll admit that most of us have a strong preference. As you might have guessed, I am a Cat Person. This happened to me quite by accident, when someone dumped a tiny kitten on me when I was in college. They said that it was going to be killed if I didn’t take it. I had a dog growing up and really didn’t know anything about cats, but I fell hard for that first kitten, and it confirmed that my underlying personality is Cat-Like.

What does your Cat or Dog preference reveal about your personality? Well, I guess no one can be sure, but when I came across these videos I felt like they shed a lot of light on the subject. I don’t know if these have “gone viral” or not, all I know is, they are way too good not to share. Enjoy!

Cat Friend v. Dog Friend, Parts 1 and 2

 

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Where Did All The Music Go?

I don’t know when my life turned into one big reminder that I am middle-aged, but that is what it seems to be reduced to lately. I have a pretty extensive collection of LPs and even 45s from back in the day. I still have my turntable and even a 45 adapter. In your face! But even I am aware that records are out of date, unless you call them vinyl in which case they are hip. I’ve begrudgingly admitted that cassette tapes, which were cutting edge technology when I was in college, are gone and barely remembered. That wouldn’t be such a big deal, maybe, if I wasn’t a Deadhead. Yes, I tie dyed and twirled with the best of them, several of whom read this blog and can attest to my twirling skills and my uncanny ability to absolutely rock peasant skirts with bells and fringe moccasins. The fact is, all of my good Grateful Dead music is on cassette. That’s the way we rolled back then (pardon the pun) because The Dead allowed people to record their live music for free and cassette tapes were a basic unit of currency among Deadheads. Bygones.

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Believe it or not, our Toyota still had a cassette tape deck. OK, maybe I didn’t use it that often, but the point is that it was there and available if I needed it. We also had a 6-disc CD changer. Well now we’re tooling around in the Subaru, and everything has gotten a lot more complicated. No tape deck at all; definitely not. When I realized it only played one CD at a time I was incredulous…and Dan slowly explained to me that no one uses CDs any more. Music is downloaded. Duuuh. I clutched my beloved overstuffed bag of CDs closer to my heart and told him I didn’t want to hear any more of his lies.

Well it turns out that what the Subaru does have are USB ports. Yep-a-rooni. So my entire “traveling CD” collection has been reduced down to a fraction of a USB drive, and popped into the port in the car. OK, it’s less bulky, I’ll give you that much, but now I have to browse through a directory to find the music I want. I know some people are multi-taskers, but I am of the school of thought that driving requires my full and undivided attention. I don’t drive and text, I don’t drive and talk on the phone, and I definitely don’t browse a directory of hundreds of CDs while I’m driving. Hell, I don’t even use the handy search function when I’m driving.

This means that changing music requires that I be stopped at a red light, or that I pull over. Then there is the question of satellite radio. I understand that a subscription would put the world of music at my fingertips, but between satellite TV, land line phone (can’t give it up, no way, no how), cell phone, air card for my iPad, etc., etc., I’m really not that keen on yet another pay subscription service.

It’s just all gotten so complicated. My basic human rights, such as buying tasty coffee beverages at convenience stores, and listening to music, are becoming inaccessible due to technology. I WILL have music! But only if I’m lucky and hit a long red light.

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